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Here are the most general challenges most parents may face when taking care of Children with Autism
Understanding the child’s needs and wants
Memahami keperluan dan kehendak anaknya
As said, many of them have communication problems, so there are times when they will have trouble understanding the needs and wants of the child.
For example, my own brother can cry out of nowhere and we do not know why. We can sometimes try calming him down, or give him something that may calm him down but he will still cry,
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Seperti dinyatakan, kebanyakan mereka mempunyai masalah bercakap, Jadi ada masa bila mereka mempunyai masalah untuk memahami keperluan dan kemahuan anaknya
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Contohnya, adik saya boleh menangis secara tiba-tiba dan kami tidak tahu kenapa,Kami boleh mencuba menenangkan dia, atau memberi dia barang yang boleh menenangkannya tetapi dia akan terus menangis,
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Effectively Communicating With Their Child
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Berkomunikasi Secara Berkesan Dengan Anaknya
There are times where an Autism parent wants to tell his/her child something, like to stay with them, but they may not listen as they have such a short attention span and just be in their own world.
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As you can see the child does not know how to tell us anything, so when he is in this state we can be confused on what he wants and why he is that way.
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Ada banyak kali ketika ibu bapa Autisme mencuba memberitahu anaknya sesuatu seperti untuk berjalan di sebelah mereka, tetapi mereka mungkin tidak dengar kerana mereka mempunyai tumpuan yang singkat atau berada dalam dunia sendiri.
Anda boleh melihat bahawa anak itu tidak tahu mmberitahu kita apa-apa, Jadi bila dia seperti ini kita boleh keliru apa yang dia mahu dan kenapa dia seperti itu..
Financially paying for treatment
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Membayar untuk rawatan
Therapy for treating Autism is not cheap, with many center up to charging thousands and some families cannot afford the treatment required so they have to work harder or sometime, they just can’t give the treatment their child requires to progress. This is one of the biggest issue
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Terapi untuk rawatan autisma tidak murah, banyak pusat mengenakkan caj beribu dan ada banyak keluarga yang tidak mampu bayar untuk rawatannya atau mesti kerja rajin sedikit atau tidak boleh memberi rawatan. Ini adalah masalah besar
On our holiday, instead of eating he was playing ipad. This is what keeps him sitting down and quiet
(sigh)
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Having meaningful family time
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Going on a family vacation
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Going into the community
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Mempunyai masa keluarga yang bermakna
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Pergi ke Cuti Keluarga
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Pergi ke Masyarakat
These three intertwine with each other as depending on the impairments that the child has it can be hard for them to go out because as stated above they may have behavioural problems such as biting others, flapping out of nowhere, sudden tantrums, the inability to sit still, going off without telling anyone.
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To make it easier to take care of them we may need to give them gadgets which distance us from them even more
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These are all challenges that can be quite stressful for family members
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Ini semua boleh dikaitkan kerana bergantung kepada gangguan budaknya mempunyai, ia boleh susah untuk mereka keluar kerana alasan yang dinyatakan. Mereka boleh mempunyai masalah tingkah laku seperti mengigit orang, berkipas dan mengamuk secaratiba-tiba, kesukaraan untuk menduduk diam, an pergi ke tempat tanpa izin
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Untuk mudahkan perjagaan mereka kita member gajet yang menjauhkan kita dari kita
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Ini adalah cabaran cabaran yang boleh memberi tekanan untuk ahli keluarga
One of the biggest challenges for parents
Finding a suitable school for their child
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Parents can go to many schools to apply their child to be placed in the school but the school will not accept them because they may not be prepared to handle the behaviors that these people can have.
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My mother is very stressed out trying to find a school, to put my brother in. It isuntuk not as simple as finding a different school as many parents do. This takes assessments and many interviews to get them into the school
She had tried but it is very hard, even a school which do have programmes for Autistic children did not accept him because he was being too loud, or because he cannot follow instructions
I was at a dinner at an Event that an Autistic Organisation had set up and while speaking to the people at my table , a mother told me her 13 year old son had been kicked out of three schools because of his behaviour although he can read and write
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Mencari sekolah yang sesuai untuk anak
bu bapa boleh pergi ke sekolah dan memohon anaknya untuk diletak dalam sekolahnya tetapi sekplah tidak akan terimakkan kerna mereka tidak sedia untuk mengedalikkan tingkah laku mereka mempunyai
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Ibu saya menegas mencuba mencari sekolah untuk adik saya di letak, Ini tidak muda macam mencari seolah baru seperti perkara banyak ibu bapa. Ini memerlukan pepereksaan dan banyak temuduga untuk mendapat anak masuk sekoloah
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Dia sudah mencuba tetapi ini memang susah , walaupun sekolah ini mempunyai program untuk budak autisma , mereka tidak terimakan dia kerana dia terlalu bising dan dia tidak boleh ikut peraturan
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Saya di makam malam di majlis Organisasi Autisma membuat dan ketika bersembang dengan orrang di tempatnya, satu ibu membertahu kita anak autisma usia 13 telah dibuang sekolah kerana tingkah laku dia walaupun dia boleh membaca dan menulis